Tag Archives: marriage

“If we were right for each other we wouldn’t be having these problems and we should probably just get divorced!”

There is a very learnable process you can use when conflict arises that will keep it emotionally safe and result in feelings of understanding and real empathy.

“Our Marriage Problems Are All My Partner’s Fault & They Will Never Change!”

‘You can be right, or you can be married!’ Being able to put aside our defensive reactions and genuinely understand and be touched by each other’s suffering is a game changer. Many if not most couples cannot do this without professional help.

“Marriage…It’s Hard Work And We Should Be Able To Solve Our Own Problems!”

Wanting your marriage to succeed is the right motivation, but couples usually lack the knowledge about how to create trust, emotional safety, and intimacy in their marriage.